Welcome to the weekly Q&A!
This is what Ask The Headhunter is all about! Real questions submitted by real job seekers (and employers) about real, daunting problems and challenges they face, answered by Ask The Headhunter host Nick Corcodilos. Don’t miss each column’s Comments section, where the entire ATH community piles on for lively debate and to share insights, stories and advice that’s often better than Nick’s! Got a Q? Submit it to Nick!
“Laid off! Am I really damaged goods?” No, recruiters are stupid.
Question You advise us not to say too much about why we’re interviewing for a new job, but I had no idea what kind of bias there is against people…
Lying is so hard
Question While reviewing a handful of questions from readers about “when is it okay to lie a little bit” and “is it lying if I say…” and “so many people…
Can I change careers without a salary cut?
Question In another column about how to change careers, your advice seems to be valid for someone who is single, but not for someone who has a family to support….
Finding a job in a career desert
Question You often discuss the importance of using networking and connections to get a new job. Here indeed lies the problem. Who is best qualified doesn’t matter anymore, in favor…
Summer Slam: 5 in-your-face questions about job search
Sometimes more really is better! Rather than focus on just one question from a reader this week, I’m publishing 5 short, in-your-face questions (and maybe contrarian answers) about job search…
Busted for lying about salary
Question I was offered a position after three interviews. In the offer the title was changed from Assistant to Senior Assistant and the salary was $5k more than was originally…
What if the company is a bad cultural fit?
Question I’m interviewing with a good company for a job that’s just right for me, but I’m worried about whether it might be a bad cultural fit. I don’t mean…
Should I change the way I look to get hired?
Question I may have an interview for a really great job (yay!). I have braces on my teeth. Big ugly braces. They are not attractive. I could have them taken…
Did poor conversation skills cost you another job?
Do you suspect that your job interviews — or your networking attempts — go nowhere because you just don’t know how to have the kind of great conversation that makes…
Acute Spousal Interference
Question My husband, a manager, would like to find a good job in Washington state. We were downsized in Philadelphia, and then found work in New York, but the cost…
Memo to Managers: If you’re hiring, stop posting jobs
Question I head up a large sales team. Every year it’s harder and harder to attract and hire good salespeople. I’m fed up with HR’s lack of answers. HR posts…
New Grads: The I can’t get a job blues
Question As a new grad I think I’ve got the I can’t get a job blues! I remain unconvinced that a liberal arts major has transferable job skills in today’s…
You let WHO do your recruiting for you??
Question I’m afraid I disagree with your objections to using a traditional type of resume. [See Resume Blasphemy.] Here is the basis for my misgivings. I am a hiring manager…
How do we dump the boss?
Question What are the prospects for a whole department toppling their boss? The boss is a typical “Management by Fear” practitioner. He is not liked or respected by his subordinates…
5 questions to ask a hiring manager that no one ever asks
Question Your article about “What’s the best interview question?” to ask a hiring manager has served me well in many job interviews. Managers have actually complimented me. But that’s one question!…
After just 2 weeks can I quit for a better job offer?
Question I’ve been working for company #2 for two weeks. I had interviewed at company #1 as well, but I thought nothing was going to happen there. It now turns…
5 lies about ATSes (Applicant Tracking Systems)
Question I’ve successfully searched for work for over 20 years. I always lead with what I can do for an employer and with my ability to learn quickly, and I…
Pest or hiring manager’s dream?
Question I’ve been reading a lot of books about job searches. They all say you have to send in your resume then follow up with phone calls. In other words,…
Your job-search addiction: It’s all the same app
Question I lost my job over two years ago, and have applied for over 4,000 HR (Human Resources) opportunities, with 97 interviews, and I am still unemployed. I’ve updated my…
How do I bring closure to series of 6 interviews?
Question I have been on 6 interviews with senior management at a highly regarded company. Although the interviews were exploratory, the hiring manager looked to me to take over and…
Manager talked a blue streak in my interview
Question What do you think of managers who interview by talking a blue streak? I interviewed with the VP of Technology in a good company. I followed your advice about…
A.I. Job Interview: You need to know why it’s crap
Question I’ve been told once again that to be considered for a real job interview I have to first do a solo AI job interview via video with a robot…
Over-worked, about to crash & burn
Question I am extremely valuable to my employer, working 55-60 hours a week and too close to burn-out for comfort. I’m curious what else is out there, but don’t have…
I was not hired, and I love it
Question I want to share a wonderful story about how I didn’t get a job. I interviewed and was not hired. Although the job was through a recruiter and my…