Question
The Technical Director quit and my manager was promoted to that position. I was promised that there would be room for promotion when I was hired, however I was just passed over for promotion. Someone else in the department has been promoted to be my manager.
I like my former manager (now the Director) and I would like to continue to work for him, and not work for this other “peer” who is now my new boss. Do you have any suggestions on how to handle this? Should I be direct with the new Director and say that I want to report to him, hint around at it, or keep my mouth shut? Should I read between the lines and start looking for another job?
Nick’s Reply
Ah, you’ve got move-over-itis. That’s when you’re told to move over because someone else is getting what you want. There’s no easy answer to this one. There are too many factors that you might not know about, and even more that I don’t know about. But move over need not mean game over.
Let me try and give you some things to consider; then you’ll have to decide how to proceed.
Passed over for promotion
Either (a) you didn’t get the job because they don’t think you can handle it (one problem), or (b) your new manager is more qualified than you are (a different problem).
Let’s pursue (a) first. Regarding the management position:
- Do you understand the management work that needs to be done? Are you sure? Or, do your bosses have reason to suspect you don’t?
- Are you able to demonstrate that you can do the work? Think about both the day-to-day functions of the job as well as the more strategic requirements. In what ways have you demonstrated your management skills? (Don’t say they didn’t ask you; they never will. It’s up to you.)
- Could you do the work the way the company wants it done? This relates to style, attitude, work ethic, philosophy, and your willingness to “enlist” as a member of a team. Would you be a manager who fits, or one who doesn’t quite?
- Could you do the work profitably for the company? That is, what would your efforts as a manager bring to the bottom line? Yep, I’m looking for an actual figure. A good manager understands costs and profitability. Your estimate might be way off, but you’ve got to be able to show that you can come up with a figure you can defend. Have you thought about that job in such detail?
- Finally, would the job be good for you? Would it “profit” your career and your wallet? Not all technical people are management material; and not all managers are great staff members.
You might want to talk to your old boss confidentially, and ask why you were passed over. It’s a bit of a risk; but so is keeping your mouth shut, right?
Without being defensive (or upset) try to discuss each of the questions above. Listen to your former boss’s assessment. This could help you get into a better position for the next promotion opportunity.
Try again for a promotion?
Let’s go to (b). If the new manager is better at the work than you would be, the case is closed. But if you really want a management job down the road, a new case opens, and I think you really need to talk to the powers that be.
Don’t go crying sour grapes; it’s too late for that particular job. But it’s time to find out what they’re looking for in a manager. And it’s a good time to make it clear that you want management. You must be ready to justify yourself: use a business plan.
Again, your old boss could be your best ally if you approach him in a candid but professional way. It sounds like you have a good relationship with him. I’d bring it up over a casual lunch off-site. Don’t complain — learn. Let him be a dutch uncle. Ask for advice, not explanations. Then listen.
Move over yourself
Move-over-itis leaves you terribly itchy to do something. I get that. But you should consider your options carefully.
You’ve been passed over for promotion, so maybe you should move over. Your idea of seeking a job with your old manager may be a good solution. It could get you into a new domain with fresh responsibilities and with a new opportunity to demonstrate your value to the company. And, it may get you away from the new manager, whom you don’t seem to like working for. (Is that your competitive nature talking, or your disappointment, or is the manager really not worth working for?)
As you note, the final option is to start looking for another employer. In this case, I suggest you honestly assess what happened at this company. Don’t move on to a repeat experience.
All these questions, eh? I hope one or more of them lead you toward your goal (or toward a new goal).
What’s your experience with promotions? Have you ever been “bumped” by another employee who got the job instead? Is being passed over a good enough reason to move on? Is getting promoted a matter of “who you know” or is it about abilities?
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