I expect a low salary offer. Should I even interview?

I expect a low salary offer. Should I even interview?

Question

I have an interview scheduled next week with a leading bank, and I am a very good fit for the role in corporate middle management. Based on conversations I’ve had with people that work at the company and people that have turned down job offers there, I expect a low salary offer. The HR recruiter asked me what salary I expected, and I talked around the question without giving a number, ending with, “I really need to think about that because it depends on multiple factors.” She requested that I get back to her with my number. Since I have the interview scheduled should I wait and let them make the offer (assuming they do)? Or should I preemptively tell her a number that is slightly above what I believe to be fair based on research (not on my opinion of myself)?

Also, is there a way to set the anchor on the high side without sounding like I’m full of myself? Thanks for your help.

Nick’s Reply

low salary offerThe unknown factor is HR’s predisposition toward low salary offers. Even though you’ve been told they make low salary offers, you don’t really know how this HR person will handle the matter. So anything you do (or don’t do) presents a risk. Including doing nothing at all. So I’ll tell you what I’d do — but you must use your judgment and any other information you have at your disposal.

Avoid a low salary offer

I agree you need to set an anchor, but you have already accepted the interview. If you learn during this interview what the job is really all about, you should be ready to quote your desired salary range when your meeting ends. If you need an additional meeting to fully understand the work, I’d ask for a follow-up interview and explain that then you’d be happy to give them a desired range.

How to Say It
“But I can’t do that until I know in more detail what the job entails. Specifically, I’d like to discuss what you would need me to accomplish at milestones of three months, six and 12, and what opportunities would enable me to do the work in a way that adds to your profitability.”

You could also ask them what range they have in their budget for the job. (Fair play, eh?)

Then, once you know what is their business plan for the job, I’d tell them the salary I expect is between $X – $Y, with a range of about 5%. This is a reasonable way to use the anchoring effect to your advantage. I’d add that you’re not playing negotiating games — this is really what you’re looking for, since they asked, and you’re prepared to justify it.

Don’t play the “high-low” game

Now the hard part: You really must be ready to justify your desired range. You must also be ready to tell what the “multiple factors” are. I like to lean on “how I’m going to do this job more profitably than you expected” as a big factor. (Please see Stand Out: How to be the profitable hire.)

To avoid the high-low salary game, I’d keep the X-Y range tight. And I’d be ready to accept $X if they offer it. But I would not go in high just because you expect they will come in low. (That is playing games!) I’d actually give them a range you’d accept, and even say, “If your offer is in this range, I accept it.” Making this kind of preemptive commitment is a very powerful negotiation tool. It establishes your desire to take the job, which is always a concern of an employer. Of course, you must have already satisfied yourself that you really want this job.


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If it’s a low salary offer, be ready to walk

If they come in low, you can easily say, “Well, you asked me, and I told you, and I wasn’t playing negotiating games.” Then you must be ready to walk away — unless they make an honest effort to “meet you in between” that you find acceptable. This puts the burden on them.

If you find they will not work with you on the range, then I think you must conclude that these are not going to be great people to work with. Don’t discount the information you acquire about them through this process — you will have to live with these people a long time. Think carefully about that.

Set an anchor early when you can

You’re wise to think about the anchor effect, but at this point, I think it’s hard to set an anchor that’s higher than what you’d really accept. If avoiding a low salary offer is really possible with an employer, I believe you need to set the anchor much earlier in the process — when you first start talking and before you agree to interview.

As I said, you must use your own best judgment. Every situation is unique, so don’t beat yourself up about handling it perfectly. The scenario — and your salary requirement — will likely change as you get more information about the job and the company.

I wish you the best.

Would you interview for a job if you knew in advance that the offer would very likely be low? How would you handle it? Have you ever been able to negotiate a salary meaningfully higher than an employer offered?

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Will social media beat a singing gorilla to help you land a job?

Will social media beat a singing gorilla to help you land a job?

Question

What do you think of the desperation tactics people are resorting to on LinkedIn to beg others to help them land a job? (I’ve seen offers of cash for job leads!) Does this work? What’s the cleanest way to do this (without looking bad!)?

Nick’s Reply

 land a jobEarly in my Silicon Valley headhunting career, I was passing through an office suite when a singing gorilla appeared. A desperate, unemployed engineer was using a clever tactic to get his resume noticed. He hired a delivery guy dressed as a singing gorilla to deliver a box of pizza to managers he hoped would interview him. Taped atop the box was his resume.

I never learned whether it worked, but that was one very funny gorilla.

Doing tricks to land a job

The purpose of this column is to highlight some of the unbelievable tricks job seekers are playing on themselves so they can pretend someone’s going to find them a job.

What I’d like is your take on these efforts to dress up excuse after clever excuse for how to avoid doing the hard work to find a good job: carefully picking the few right employers and demonstrating to them how you’ll do the job profitably if they hire you.

Desperation Road

Frustrated, frazzled job seekers are keenly aware that what they’re doing to find their next job is not very effective. In fact, what they experience is captured in a complaint attributed to Lewis Carroll: “The hurrier I go, the behinder I get.”

This website is abundant with readers’ stories of endless failures in their job searches. The common refrain is, “I keep applying to more and more jobs, but I can’t get hired.”

That’s why they come here. Because we lay bare the foibles of our broken employment system. We all know that this system is almost purely reliant on staggering quantities of job listings and accompanying fire-hose-style job applications. Employers have created a Sisyphean digital road to All The Jobs that people race along faster and harder — only to find at the end of it a stinking dump waiting to swallow them up and spit them back out.

And in utter desperation they have to run that road again and again and again, because it seems there’s no choice.

Gone down the wrong road

The answer to this hamster-on-a-treadmill quandary is found in a Turkish saying: “No matter how far you have gone down the wrong road, turn back.”

Job seekers just don’t want to turn back. They believe they’ve invested too much to stop now. But that Turkish wisdom is the best advice they’ll ever get.

Rather than question their painfully held belief that some process, some expert, some database or some A .I. is going to help them land a job, they keep running the same road, but each time dressed in some new kind of gorilla suit they’ve been told will make a difference.

They know they’re on the wrong job-hunting road but they won’t turn back.

“Weirdly creative” tactics

A recent Washington Post column reports that “Desperate for jobs, people try new social media tactics to stand out”. The article says “job seekers are getting weirdly creative to land their next jobs.”

They’re not deploying singing gorillas, but they’ve learned to beg like a dog on social media. What we’re seeing more and more is that these social media tricks aren’t working well.

At least the singing gorilla was amusing.

I recommend you read the entire WaPo article because I think it will help you keep your eye on the real objective — a new job — no matter what anyone else is doing. Gorilla tactics (and cash offers for job leads) may seem clever. They’re not. I won’t take up space here suggesting better alternatives because you’ll find them throughout Ask The Headhunter. Let’s take a hard look at how far off the path job seekers have gone. The following real-life stories about (NOT) getting a job are from the Washington Post link above.

A good signal?

One job seeker boasts he’s got a “whatever-it-takes mentality.”

He’s offering $3,000 on LinkedIn to anyone that finds him a job, and he hopes this is “…a good signal for a potential employer that I’m proactive, and I’m trying to solve this problem in a creative way.” If I were his potential employer, here’s my first interview question: “Is paying somebody to do your work a signal that you can do this job for me?”

How’s it working for him? He’s got no job offers but seems excited about thinking up more offers he can make to entice others to find him a job.

The recruiter that can’t land a job

A woman uses her LinkedIn page to recruit friends and contacts to find her a job. She lists nine examples of how good she would be at the job she wants, if only somebody could find it and bring it to her.

Her expertise? She’s an “HR-minded recruiter.” She’s got 15 years of experience recruiting, but “she said she’s only landed two interviews out of hundreds of job applications.” No job offers.

Revealing on LinkedIn that you can’t do for yourself what you want a paycheck to do for an employer. Say what?!”

#Desperate to work

A young guy trying to break into cybersecurity thought he’d found a great alternative to actually pursuing jobs he wants. He added a popular “tag” to his LinkedIn profile: #OpenToWork. It didn’t work.

Then he found a better tag: #Desperate. He says that tag “blew up way bigger than I thought…[it] got about half a million views” and brought him over 1,600 followers. He’s applied to 4,500 jobs.

“But he didn’t hear from hiring managers.” He asks his LinkedIn network: “Why is it so hard to get a job?”

(The #Desperate tag seems quite popular. The WaPo reports that another job seeker “still displays it after two months, eight interviews and 500 applications.” She’s had no job offers.)

Honestly waiting to land a job

Then there’s the guy who says he’s going to lose his house if he doesn’t land a job within a month. He’s sharing his plight with his LinkedIn network as honestly as possible because he’s been “feeling invisible after hundreds of applications.” He feels that the more honest he is on his profile, the better. “I just need someone to see this that has an opening that can help me save my house.”

He’s gotten “at least 3,000 comments and messages” and two interviews because, he believes, he’s being so open and honest. But he’s gotten no job.

How much is that singing gorilla?

I’ll say what the WaPo article doesn’t bother to say.

Cut the crap, folks! The problem is that way too many job seekers have learned to avoid actually picking the right employers and actively pursuing jobs they can do to improve a company’s business. (How to do this is really not so mysterious.)

Social media sites have provided people with the company of millions of other job seekers who are “crafting” clever marketing ploys to get other social media users — and a plethora of digital go-fers — to find them a job. This is not networking. It’s wishful thinking. Read that WaPo article carefully. Not one of the clever job seekers in the story reported they found a job.

Maybe better social media tricks could get someone to bring you a new job. Or you could just hire a singing gorilla.

What tricks have you seen job seekers do to get someone else to find them a job? Have gorilla-like social media tactics really become a thing? Do any of the examples of job-hunting tactics described seem useful to you?

NOTE: The Washington Post is a subscription-based news outlet. I cannot guarantee my link to it will work.

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Passed over for promotion: Move-over-itis

Passed over for promotion: Move-over-itis

Question

The Technical Director quit and my manager was promoted to that position. I was promised that there would be room for promotion when I was hired, however I was just passed over for promotion. Someone else in the department has been promoted to be my manager.

I like my former manager (now the Director) and I would like to continue to work for him, and not work for this other “peer” who is now my new boss. Do you have any suggestions on how to handle this? Should I be direct with the new Director and say that I want to report to him, hint around at it, or keep my mouth shut? Should I read between the lines and start looking for another job?

Nick’s Reply

passed over for promotionAh, you’ve got move-over-itis. That’s when you’re told to move over because someone else is getting what you want. There’s no easy answer to this one. There are too many factors that you might not know about, and even more that I don’t know about. But move over need not mean game over.

Let me try and give you some things to consider; then you’ll have to decide how to proceed.

Passed over for promotion

Either (a) you didn’t get the job because they don’t think you can handle it (one problem), or (b) your new manager is more qualified than you are (a different problem).

Let’s pursue (a) first. Regarding the management position:

  1. Do you understand the management work that needs to be done? Are you sure? Or, do your bosses have reason to suspect you don’t?
  2. Are you able to demonstrate that you can do the work? Think about both the day-to-day functions of the job as well as the more strategic requirements. In what ways have you demonstrated your management skills? (Don’t say they didn’t ask you; they never will. It’s up to you.)
  3. Could you do the work the way the company wants it done? This relates to style, attitude, work ethic, philosophy, and your willingness to “enlist” as a member of a team. Would you be a manager who fits, or one who doesn’t quite?
  4. Could you do the work profitably for the company? That is, what would your efforts as a manager bring to the bottom line? Yep, I’m looking for an actual figure. A good manager understands costs and profitability. Your estimate might be way off, but you’ve got to be able to show that you can come up with a figure you can defend. Have you thought about that job in such detail?
  5. Finally, would the job be good for you? Would it “profit” your career and your wallet? Not all technical people are management material; and not all managers are great staff members.

You might want to talk to your old boss confidentially, and ask why you were passed over. It’s a bit of a risk; but so is keeping your mouth shut, right?

Without being defensive (or upset) try to discuss each of the questions above. Listen to your former boss’s assessment. This could help you get into a better position for the next promotion opportunity.

Try again for a promotion?

Let’s go to (b). If the new manager is better at the work than you would be, the case is closed. But if you really want a management job down the road, a new case opens, and I think you really need to talk to the powers that be.

Don’t go crying sour grapes; it’s too late for that particular job. But it’s time to find out what they’re looking for in a manager. And it’s a good time to make it clear that you want management. You must be ready to justify yourself: use a business plan.

Again, your old boss could be your best ally if you approach him in a candid but professional way. It sounds like you have a good relationship with him. I’d bring it up over a casual lunch off-site. Don’t complain — learn. Let him be a dutch uncle. Ask for advice, not explanations. Then listen.

Move over yourself

Move-over-itis leaves you terribly itchy to do something. I get that. But you should consider your options carefully.

You’ve been passed over for promotion, so maybe you should move over. Your idea of seeking a job with your old manager may be a good solution. It could get you into a new domain with fresh responsibilities and with a new opportunity to demonstrate your value to the company. And, it may get you away from the new manager, whom you don’t seem to like working for. (Is that your competitive nature talking, or your disappointment, or is the manager really not worth working for?)

As you note, the final option is to start looking for another employer. In this case, I suggest you honestly assess what happened at this company. Don’t move on to a repeat experience.

All these questions, eh? I hope one or more of them lead you toward your goal (or toward a new goal).

What’s your experience with promotions? Have you ever been “bumped” by another employee who got the job instead? Is being passed over a good enough reason to move on? Is getting promoted a matter of “who you know” or is it about abilities?

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How do I find the hiring manager who needs me?

How do I find the hiring manager who needs me?

Question

I’ve begun an intense job search, but now I’m keeping in mind your helpful hints, including from your books. I’ve found some online resources that have given me a great start at identifying companies in particular regions and industries that meet my requirements. I’ve also been able to find the names of principals in these companies. Now what? Any hints or suggestions as to methods to find that hiring manager within the organization that has those problems I’ll be able to solve?

I like to be prepared before I begin making the calls and “networking.” I don’t want to risk losing potential sources and contacts by saying the wrong things. You have indicated that the key to a successful search is to contact the person who you would work for within the organization, develop a presentation of how you can help and/or resolve particular issues, and of course make yourself available for hire. I’m sure many would like to read your helpful hints in this regard.

Nick’s Reply

hiring managerThe manager that needs to hire you is a manager whose problems you can solve, and whose work you can get done. You can’t accomplish this selection unless, of course, you know what those challenges are. And this is what dooms most “job searches,” because job seekers don’t do enough to really understand what a hiring manager needs. (It’s not in the job description.) Instead, they throw their resume at a job posting and wait for the manager, or, worse, for HR to figure it out. And most managers and most HR folks suck at figuring out whether you can do the job. (They’re too busy stirring the ATS and AI kool-aid.)

The only path to the right hiring manager is via people the manager works with.

That is, the right approach involves starting with people other than the manager. It helps to triangulate. In the course of gathering useful information about the organization, you will also start to learn who the key managers are and what they really need.

Circle around the hiring manager

  • Talk to people who know and work for managers who may be relevant to your job search.

These include employees, vendors, customers, consultants and a raft of others. This helps you establish a kind of network or organization chart. It also helps you develop the work topics you can discuss with the manager you ultimately define as your target. Conversations with people on a manager’s or job’s periphery will help you come up with these topics.

Identify issues and problems

  • Read industry journals to find out what are the key problems the entire industry is grappling with.

Then drill down: study articles in these journals and in the popular business press about the specific company. Every company has aches and pains. You cannot help if you don’t know the issues and problems a company is struggling with, but that’s how you get your foot in the door.

Get help, get names

  • Call the reporters who wrote the articles you read.

Ask them who they interviewed during their research. (For every page of an article, reporters typically have pages of research and interviews.) If you ask gently and politely, they may share their opinions of the industry and company, and about what particular issues and challenges the company faces. You can gather lots of useful info this way, while your competition approaches jobs blindly, grasping at job postings that tell them nothing useful.

Your goal is to get the names of people who work at the company, or who know the company and the hiring manager.

Ask for advice, not for a job

  • Call these people.

Explain that you are interested in their industry and in their company. Ask intelligent questions based on what you’ve read. Do not ask for a job or job lead.

Instead, ask them what advice they’d give someone who was considering working in their industry, and perhaps for their company.

As you follow up with the people whose names you’ve gathered, you will get closer to a particular hiring manager’s inner circle. When you’re talking to people who work for that manager, you’re getting the information you really need (and a possible introduction).

Get ready to talk with the hiring manager

It’s up to you to formulate an idea of what problems a company and a manager a facing. Then you must put together a simple plan that will enable you to show a manager how you can contribute to the bottom line. Please see Stand Out: How to be the profitable hire.

You know you have the right hiring manager when the two of you can discuss in detail and agree on what the manager needs from you, and when you demonstrate you can do it.

I hope this gets you going in the right direction. The point is to offer a company something they need, rather than to get in line and ask for a job. Your research on a company’s problems and challenges will lead you naturally to the right managers. But I think you’ve already got that idea. You’re ready to start trying some of these methods. Don’t worry about making a few mistakes. This takes practice.

Best wishes, and thanks for your kind words.

Are you successful at getting to the right hiring manager? How do you avoid obstacles?

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LinkedIn’s new AI hiring assistant is not a smart as Mark Cuban’s dog

LinkedIn’s new AI hiring assistant is not a smart as Mark Cuban’s dog

Question

I’d love to hear your take on LinkedIn’s new AI (Artificial Intelligence) assistant for recruiting and hiring.

Nick’s Reply

AI HiringThey call it Artificial for a reason.

And I’ll let Mark Cuban back me up. Asked in a Wired interview about how AI is being used in screening job applicants and changing hiring, Cuban responded, “I think smart puppies are smarter than AI is today or in the near future…and I don’t think that’s going to change for a long time.” Pressed about how long, he said, “Ten years. Because wisdom doesn’t come with text.”

It seems Cuban heard the pitch about AI in human resources (HR), steepled his fingers and said, “I’m out.” If you want a blow-by-blow account of why AI in HR is a scandal that corporate America is carefully ignoring, read investigative journalist Hilke Schellmann’s stunning book, The Algorithm: How AI decides who gets hired, monitored, promoted and fired and why we need to fight back now.

GitHub eats LinkedIn’s breakfast

AI in the service of HR is so pitifully impotent that multi-million-dollar systems to automate recruiting and hiring are easily neutered by free code any job seeker can find on Microsoft’s Github.

Jason Koebler, cofounder of 404 Media, reports that, using Auto_Jobs_Applier_AIHawk he “applied for 17 jobs in an hour on LinkedIn.” Chewing automatically through one job posting after another while Koebler eats his breakfast, AIHawk enters his biographical information and creates custom resumes and cover letters for 2,843 jobs and submits them.

LinkedIn’s AI Hiring Assistant: It’s all in the family

There’s no need to agonize over how to engage the uber-automation of recruiting that drives job seekers to depression and despair. Koebler reports that AIHawk “is actively being used by thousands of people to use AI to automatically apply for jobs on LinkedIn at scale.”

This by itself is all you should need to know to avoid any kind of AI-based recruiting campaign on LinkedIn (or anywhere else) no matter what the company or job is. Code jockeys smarter than you have already exploited the AI’s pathetically fatal weaknesses.

Microsoft, which owns both LinkedIn and GitHub, just announced it has entered the AI agent race with LinkedIn Hiring Assistant — thereby pitting two of its businesses against one another. It’s “all in the family.”

My take is, Microsoft is promoting mutually assured destruction by triggering a ludicrous and very costly escalation of “HR technology” that, as Mark Cuban puts it, isn’t the equal of a smart puppy. For a few years, HR had the upper hand. It deployed the equivalent of an AI dog with a note in its mouth to “recruit.”

But once the code jockeys that live on GitHub figured it out, they sent their own dog with a note in its mouth to meet HR.

“A growing AI battle”: One HR consultant’s fantasy

Josh Bersin, a long-time apologist for HR’s shameless misapplications of technology to “people management,” gleefully eggs on the AI robo-dogs while they tear each other into millions of little digital pieces:

“There is now a growing AI battle between recruiter and candidates. As AI helps recruiters source and screen candidates, the candidates are using AI to ‘power-up’ their resumes. One of our clients told me that almost all their job applicants now submit resumes that look eerily similar to job descriptions. Why? Job candidates are using AI also!

“This means is that tools like LinkedIn Hiring Assistant are more essential than ever. As job seekers tweak their identity and even use AI interview assessments to game interviews, HR has to beef up its tools to better differentiate candidates.”

Translation:

Guys like Bersin make more money when HR and job seekers are encouraged to throw bigger and bigger digital dogs into a fray that no one wins except HR tech firms and HR consultants. (See New Recruiting: Let’s just hire ChatGPT)

Do we really need Mark Cuban to explain that his puppy is smarter than HR’s AI — and will be for at least another 10 years? Does HR really need pundits like Bersin to egg them on to keep spending billions on AI that is, well, Artificial?

Mark Cuban’s puppy

So, what do I think of LinkedIn’s AI Hiring Assistant? I think it’s just more BLAH BLAH BLAH. You’re better off being interviewed by Cuban’s dog.

Corporate boards of directors would do well to take a look at what HR is blowing their company’s money on. If that billion-dollar HR technology worked, code jockeys on GitHub wouldn’t be nuking it in their spare time. It doesn’t help to tell HR and job seekers that they each need to “beef up” their “AI tools” so they can really fake each other out.

Some advice to job seekers: While it may seem cool to “beat the AI” with more AI, consider that this AI war does nothing to get you the insider’s edge on getting hired for the right job at the right company. The notes in those robo-dogs’ mouths are…blank. Go around the barking dogs and learn to talk shop with people who do the work you want to do at the companies where you want to do it. That’s where jobs come from.

Advice to employers: Learn to recruit. That means get off your duff and go out to meet the people that make your industry go ‘round. That’s where talent comes from.

The Intelligence in LinkedIn’s AI Hiring Assistant is Artificial, so can we just make things simple and call it what it is — LinkedIn’s Stupid Hiring Assistant? The only real intelligence I see in this cockup is Mark Cuban’s puppy.

What’s your experience been with AI in your job search? Have you tried AI tools for job seekers? Is your puppy smarter than LinkedIn?

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How can I get a job 3,000 miles away?

How can I get a job 3,000 miles away?

Question

I am currently working in the San Francisco Bay Area but want to move to the Philadelphia area (where I was born and raised), but responding to job ads and sending resumes just doesn’t seem to be doing it for me. So, what in your opinion is the best, quickest way to search for a job 3,000 miles away?

Nick’s Reply

get a jobCut the distance down. Go to Philadelphia.

To get a job, pick specific companies

I would select a handful of companies in Philly; companies you would love to work for. Do not use job postings to do this. Pick out your own targets. (See How do I know what jobs I want?)

Research these companies in depth. Find out who’s in charge of the department you’d want to work in. Learn about each company’s problems and the challenges they face. Talk to their vendors. Talk to their customers. (Call their sales reps — sales people love to talk.) Talk to the associations they belong to. Find and study the pertinent industry journals. Learn enough so that you can describe exactly how you could contribute to a company’s bottom line — and be ready to tell it to the boss.

Make it up-close and personal

This isn’t easy — but what good job is easy? Effective job hunting is not very different from tackling a major project in the job you’re doing right now, so use the same common sense and business skills you use every day. Take control and talk directly with the right people. Make it personal.

Parts of this column appear in Redfin’s 8 Tips for Overcoming Procrastination in the New Year. Don’t miss it![/dropshadowbox]Once you’ve identified the right managers and prepared something to discuss with them, call them.

Explain that you’re going to be in Philadelphia on business (you will be, if you use this approach!), that you just read about them in XYZ publication, and that you’d like to stop by briefly to learn more about their operation because you may be considering a job change soon.

Offer something: tell them that you have some ideas about how to [fill in the blank]. Ask for advice: who would they recommend that you talk to? Remember: you’re discussing this with your prospective boss, except they don’t know that yet. (See Get In The Door – way ahead of your competition.)

Make the investment

This article is part of Redfin’s 8 Tips for Overcoming Procrastination in the New Year. Don’t miss it!
If you can schedule three or more such casual visits, you should consider making the investment in the trip. Do not ask any of these companies if they’d pick up the tab. That will turn them right off, because then HR has to be dragged into the picture, and your proposed casual meetings — not  job interviews! — are likely to get cancelled. The point is to go around the system by engaging a manager in a discussion about their work and business — in other words, get a job without applying for a job.

Or, attend an industry event in your target city

An Ask The Headhunter subscriber shared how he pulled off a move from Connecticut to Austin, Texas by attending — on his own dime — two professional events in Austin.

Here is the breakdown of how I got this job. Prior to meeting you, I wouldn’t have done any of these things. They are all outside my comfort zone. You gave me the tools to get out there and do it. Thank you so much.

  • Attended an industry event in target city.
  • Introduced myself to founder of the event.
  • He introduced me to a local industry consultant.
  • Attended second industry event in target city and had in-depth conversation with industry consultant.
  • He introduced me to his friend, the president at the company where I eventually got an offer.

Go there

This is risky, and it will cost you something. But if you prepare properly before calling these managers, and if you have something valuable to offer them in your meetings, it can pay off handsomely. Remember: you must pursue companies you have selected carefully and with purpose. Before calling a manager, know their business. Finally, have something valuable to offer in your meetings.

You’re right: job hunting from 3,000 miles isn’t easy. But the approach that’s necessary quickly reveals the weakness of most job hunting methods: they are impersonal. Resumes and online job postings won’t cut it. You must get close to the people you want to work for — both physically and in terms of your knowledge about their business.

How would you attempt to get a job thousands of miles away? Have you ever pulled this off? What’s the best way this long-distance job seeker could optimize chances of success?

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How to answer “What’s your salary expectation?”

How to answer “What’s your salary expectation?”

Question

We all know the question, “What’s your salary expectation?” Recently I was talking to a very nice recruiter who asked this question on our first call. I told him I’m looking for $X. The recruiter then spoke to the company about me, and the company basically said, “We can’t offer $X base pay but we can offer her a lower base $Y, and then offer $Z bonus on top.” So my question is, isn’t it unusual to be negotiating salary before I have interviewed? Does it then even leave room for negotiation at the offer stage, or will I be stuck with the numbers discussed? I have not come across this scenario before. I am just curious how you would advise to handle something like this in the future?

Nick’s Reply

salary expectationThere’s nothing wrong with everyone being on the same “money page” before investing a lot of time in interviews. Expressing your salary expectation as a range, rather than a specific number $X, is best. A range gives you room to maneuver later, while ensuring everyone is at least in the same ballpark.

But there’s more to it than just giving them a number or a range. You must give them tantalizing reasons to want to meet you so that you can justify why they should pay what you ask. You must also set the ground to justify possibly asking for more when it’s time to negotiate a job offer.

Here’s the logic and how to say it.

How to Say It

“I told you my salary expectation is $X [or in the range of $X and $X+$n]. The actual compensation I would seriously consider will depend on what the demands of the job are, and on the deliverables the company expects from me. So my compensation requirement could vary from $X depending on what’s required of me. If we’re in the right ballpark, I’m willing to invest time to discuss the job.

“So, please tell me ‘where it hurts.’ That is, what does the company need me to do, fix, accomplish, improve, deliver — and I’ll do my best to offer my outline of a business plan to do it. If the company isn’t satisfied with my plan, then they shouldn’t hire me. And if they don’t offer me enough money, then I won’t take the job. But as long as we’re in the ballpark, let’s roll up our sleeves and talk shop in an interview!”

Justify your salary expectation

What no employer (or recruiter) expects is that you’re going to offer to prove you’re worth what you want with a custom, but brief, business plan about the job. This will give you an edge over your competition, and in the salary negotiations that follow your interviews.

In other words, make the discussion about salary expectation a business proposition: “If I can deliver your desired outcomes, I’ll expect you to deliver my desired pay.”

Control the negotiations

Shape the above How to Say It suggestion to suit your own style. This is how you will leave the door open to negotiate after you learn the whole story about this job. If you can learn what they want — the expected deliverables, or “where it hurts” — then you can show you can do it. This can give you a lot of control in negotiations.

Please check this: Salary Negotiation: How much to ask for.

It’s also important to understand the anchoring effect, which upends the conventional wisdom that “whoever states a number first, loses.” When they ask how much you want, it will be to your advantage to know exactly how to state your desired salary.

I wish you the best!

How do you negotiate the money part of a job offer? Do you bring it up early, or do you avoid salary discussions until the offer stage? In your experience, how can discussions about salary cause a job-offer deal to “blow up”?

 

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How business fights laws that protect job applicants from ghosting

How business fights laws that protect job applicants from ghosting

SPECIAL EDITION: Ghosting

If you’ve had to look for a job recently, you’ve likely wasted time on ghost jobs, and with employers that ghost you. Ghosting is when a company stops communicating even after it solicited you to apply for a job and attend interviews (sometimes many!). Ghost jobs are the ones currently advertised that you apply to, only to learn they’ve already been filled or are not actually open. We need laws that protect job applicants from abusive employer practices like ghosting.

Ghosting

ghostingGhosting is a widespread, irresponsible, cruel practice. It has already done serious damage to many employers’ reputations. Companies that ghost are widely excoriated by their victims online and have drawn the attention of the media. The Employment System — human resources (HR), recruiters, job boards, Applicant Tracking System (ATS) vendors and “video interview” vendors — actively supports these abhorrent practices.

HR technology is supposed to match workers to jobs more accurately, easily and quickly. But judging by the experiences reported by job seekers across industries, ghosting and ghost jobs waste their time and earn their ire. It’s worth considering how the companies that design and operate this technology make more money: when jobs are not filled and employers and job seekers alike keep returning to search again and again. HR technology enables employers to retain all power in the hiring process — and because employers on the whole abuse their power, we need laws to protect job applicants from ghosting.

The New Jersey anti-ghosting bill

In the last edition, we discussed a proposed law working its way through the New Jersey legislature, Assembly Bill A-4625, which deals with making job postings more transparent and the interviewing and hiring process more fair to job applicants. It is sponsored by Assemblyman Joe Danielsen. While job seekers applaud this bill for truth in hiring, New Jersey employers oppose it, taking the same tack they did when they opposed the $15 minimum wage (which is now law), claiming it’s impractical and unnecessary, and that it will force employers to stop hiring and move out of state.

This New Jersey bill is seen as a test of the public’s willingness to fight for transparency in hiring. If it is approved as law, it will undoubtedly stoke similar laws elsewhere for truth in recruitment advertising and in hiring practices.

To understand why this law is so important and so necessary, we will look at the mostly spurious objections presented at the bill’s public hearing by the New Jersey Business & Industry Association (NJBIA). The NJBIA represents and advocates for “every industry in the State.”

Read no further: We’re giving employers the answer

The NJBIA could save itself a lot of trouble and legal expense. I’m going to give away the easy way out of A-4625: Tell your member businesses:

  • Do the right thing
  • Show common courtesy to job applicants
  • Treat job applicants with common decency and respect
  • Be forthcoming
  • Make your hiring process responsible, transparent, and one that reflects good employer values.

If you’d done these simple things already, New Jersey Assemblyman Joe Danielsen wouldn’t have had to codify what’s obvious: common decency. He’s giving employers the answer:

“Having some certainty as to whether you have gotten the job or not is not only the bare minimum a company should be doing in the hiring process: it’s just common courtesy. The fact it is necessary for this bill to force companies to do the right thing is deeply disappointing.” – Assemblyman Joe Danielsen

Any employer that takes Danielsen’s advice probably doesn’t have to worry about violations and fines because job applicants will have no complaints to the job-posting cops. Others should keep reading.

Business: We don’t need more regulation

In 2016, NJBIA President and CEO Michele Siekerka, warned that increasing the minimum wage “will result in unprecedented increases in the cost of doing business” and “cut employees’ hours and jobs.” But the new law was needed because New Jersey businesses refused to pay a living wage. The law passed, and today New Jersey’s economy and its businesses thrive — while workers, who are also consumers and job seekers, are still being hired, but at something closer to a living wage.

In September 2024, NJBIA Vice President of Government Affairs Elissa Frank filed an equally ill-conceived protest to A-4625. Let’s take it apart to learn why it’s really just a feeble attempt to keep power in the hands of business while workers looking for new jobs continue to suffer at the hands of an Employment System gone berserk. To follow along, please refer to NJBIA Opposition A4625, from which I will excerpt key claims below.

Gratuitous protest

The NJBIA launched a protest against protections for job applicants that’s as gratuitous as its protests against the $15 minimum wage.

Our members have shared that it would be extraordinarily difficult to comply with this legislation given its sheer impracticality, vagueness, and costs.

What’s impractical is for job applicants to continue applying for jobs that employers have already filled or that are non-existent, and to invest hours interviewing with robots and HR without getting useful feedback or a timely decision. On what business planet is it okay to vanish like a ghost after asking someone to apply for a job in your company?

Business can’t possibly keep track of job openings

Compliance with this legislation is impractical for most businesses in the State. This legislation requires an employer to remove a job posting when a position has been filled within two weeks. This provision does not account for larger employers proactively hiring for positions with high turnover (i.e., cashiers, cleaning staff, night crew). To hire for these positions, many of which are open indefinitely, our members may have over 1,000 job postings on any given day. Thus, it would not be practical for businesses – or helpful to applicants – to mandate that employers remove each job posting only to replace it with an identical job posting.

Most — especially large — employers use sophisticated ATSes that automate virtually every step of recruiting and hiring. They track every aspect of the process, every job and its status, and every applicant. Employers thereby have the tools to track many thousands, tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands of applicants they solicited.

These high-priced ATSes deploy yet more software that notifies selected applicants (who are chosen by algorithms) of their candidacy. The ATS automatically schedules and conducts interviews by robots via online video technology, analyzes the results, draws conclusions based on interviewees’ facial expressions and eye movements, assigns personality types, and determines via algorithms whom to reject. (The A.I. involved is highly controversial and questionable.)

The automation is so sophisticated that thousands of applicants can be processed in parallel, rejected or approved for further interviews via Zoom or in person — all without the involvement of a human being from the company. It’s beyond comprehension that an employer can thus use technology to inform its own management about the intricate details of recruiting and hiring, e.g., candidate selection, screening, assessment, but cannot inform job applicants whether an advertised job has been filled or is still open, or whether an applicant is or is not judged a viable candidate.

“We have no idea how our hiring works”

Furthermore, this legislation requires an employer to provide a timeframe in the job posting as to when the position is anticipated to be filled. For many vacant positions, the timeframe as to when the position is anticipated to be filled is unpredictable given several factors (i.e., number of qualified applicants, if an offer is accepted, the length of time to get candidates through the hiring process).

This complaint is simply not believable to anyone with knowledge about running a business. Defining, managing and reporting on all these timeframes to management is part and parcel the job of every HR department.

There is no reason an employer cannot report to job applicants what they report to company managers. The information is already in the ATS.

“There are too many applicants to keep track of!”

HR departments deploy ATSes and job boards like LinkedIn, Indeed and ZipRecruiter to solicit tens of thousands of applicants with no filters, then complain they cannot possibly treat all applicants professionally and respectfully.

Given the volume of continuously open positions, it is very difficult to notify each applicant individually as to whether the position is still open and whether the candidate is still under consideration.

It’s a simple matter of notifying each applicant who has invested time, effort and sometimes money whether any specific job is still open — just like notifying them they will be screened or interviewed. And it is of course possible for an employer to ascertain whether a candidate is still under consideration. How can the company and its HR department operate otherwise?

As a reality check, does a business tell its customers it has no idea where the customer’s order is, or for that matter, whether it has adequate inventory to fill an order? In fact, it’s now common for the customer to directly access a business’s inventory database. Why is NJBIA suggesting a company’s ATS database of jobs, applicants, interview results and hiring decisions cannot provide status reports to job applicants? The HR technology certainly exists — or what does the T in ATS stand for?

Medium and larger businesses routinely shell out millions of dollars per year on sophisticated HR technology to track and report on open and filled jobs and on each applicant’s status, as well as on the status of each candidate interviewed. In the Stone Age, HR departments would send a postcard to every applicant thanking them for their time, regretfully rejecting them, and wishing them good luck elsewhere. That’s because every HR manager’s mother (in the Stone Age) taught that it’s important to always wear clean underwear, and to always send a thank-you note.

Surely somewhere in millions of lines of ATS code there’s room for polite communication with applicants that have invested their time to discuss a job. The software is certainly capable of it, but clearly lacks a mother to teach it to behave properly.

There is no excuse for ghosting a guest you invited to discuss a job, and if we’re to take employer associations like the NJBIA seriously, they’d have already fixed this problem. I have zero respect for the NJBIA’s one-sided, take-it-or-leave-it protest.

“Don’t you know it costs money to operate a good business?”

Businesses may have to invest in additional resources to ensure compliance, leading to increased operational costs.

Man, it’s hard to run a business properly. That’s why so many fail — including businesses that are not managed well enough to afford the workers their competitors recruited away.

If a business cannot invest resources to maintain its integrity and reputation with the professional communities from which it needs to recruit, then the business naturally loses to competitors that can. It’s a dog-eat-dog world out there, known as capitalism, where only the best survive.

If a business can afford HR technology that permits it to easily and quickly (if not accurately) solicit thousands to apply for a job, it cannot complain it lacks the resources “to notify each applicant individually as to whether the position is still open and whether the candidate is still under consideration.”

Give us a break.

“We don’t speak your language so we’re not subject to your laws”

Lastly, this legislation is vague, such that compliance is nearly impossible. For example, this legislation…does not define what constitutes an “employer”…”  does not define what constitutes “awareness”… [or a] “third-party job posting company.” NJBIA respectfully requests clarification of these ambiguities, so that businesses can properly plan… For these reasons, we respectfully request that you vote NO on A-4625.

This is the classic “straw man” argument: a logical fallacy that misrepresents bill A-4625 as unclear and extreme, then argues against the extreme version it concocted, and refuses to offer useful input to improve the bill. Any law, contract or agreement can be criticized, sometimes justifiably, because it does not define its terms clearly. Serious criticism would acknowledge the intent of the law, suggest reasonable definitions and constraints, and provide useful input. The NJBIA does none of this.

Certainly such a wide-ranging job-applicant protection law that’s akin to consumer protection and truth in advertising laws, can be improved upon and shaped to fit the goal of transparency in recruitment advertising and in the hiring process. But the bill’s opponents pretend that thousands of job applicants who’ve been ghosted and abused have no complaint. One protester claimed: “This bill does not solve any legitimate problem out there. This is not an issue.”

How business fights laws that protect job applicants from ghosting

The NJBIA fails to acknowledge the costs job applicants pay in time, effort, money, frustration and emotional and physical distress when they are ghosted. (See comment from LighthouseKeeper1138: “[Ghosting] is one of the primary things that drove me to clinical depression after I lost my 30-year job in 2009.”).

This is how lobbyists like the NJBIA fail to acknowledge that they are defending a deeply broken Employment System, and ignore the obligations of employers to conduct recruitment and hiring with transparency and respect.

This is how business fights laws that protect job applicants from ghosting.

Bill A-4625 can be negotiated to make it better. But because businesses don’t take it upon themselves to protect the very people they need to recruit, now we need a law.

A challenge to the NJBIA

Does the NJBIA have the balls to tell its member companies to do what Assemblyman Danielsen asks? Show common courtesy.

A challenge to all readers

Whether you’re in New Jersey or in another state, send a link to this column to your state and federal legislators, and to employers that have ghosted you or a friend. Demand they bring back common courtesy to job applicants — or legislate it.

How would you address the claims and arguments the NJBIA uses to reject a new law to protect job applicants from ghosting?

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NJ moves to outlaw ghost jobs, ghosting of job seekers

NJ moves to outlaw ghost jobs, ghosting of job seekers

Question

I thought the job posting was legit, so I applied online. Then I had to submit my resume and did a grueling 45 minute “robo”-interview with no real interviewer. Then I filled out more online forms, took a skills test (also online), submitted my list of references and waited. And waited. Yup — they ghosted me. Throughout all this, no human ever spoke to me. And that job? I learned from a company insider there was never any such job open to begin with! Just how widespread are ghost jobs and ghosting? How can we avoid having our time wasted by unethical employers?

Nick’s Reply

ghost jobsWell, you could move to New Jersey and cross your fingers. The state’s legislature is considering a “no ghosting” bill (A4625) that sets forth requirements for publicly advertised job postings. For example, you would never have the experience you described because the job posting would have to state whether it is for an existing position.

The measure, which was approved by the N.J. State Assembly Labor Committee, also requires an employer to provide a time frame in which the employer anticipates filling the position, and to remove a job posting when the job has been filled. The bill is still in the legislative process.

Ghost jobs & ghosting of job seekers

It gets better. (Maybe in response to the “tricks” of ghosting this is the “treat” part of Halloween?)

The bill also would also stop employers from ghosting job candidates after interviewing them. The bill provides that,

“If the employer interviews an applicant for the position, the employer is required, within the time frame provided in the job advertisement, to provide the applicant with an affirmative response as to whether the position has been filled, or if the position has not been filled, [and] whether the employer is still considering the applicant for the position.”

Could it get any better?

This legislation also targets recruiters and job boards.

“Third-party job posting entities [are required] to remove positions that have been filled, and it provides the Department of Labor and Workforce Development with the authority to audit employers and third-party job posting entities for ongoing violations. Any person who violates the provisions of the bill will be subject to civil penalties.”

The trouble with New Jersey is that virtually no news outlets picked up this story.

Ghost jobs & ghosting of job seekers: It’s Halloween every day

Needless to say, business groups protested at a Labor Committee hearing — just as they protested the $15/hour minimum wage. A local radio station reported that Assemblyman Brian Bergen, who voted against the bill, complained, “We always attack the employer and it’s not right. This bill does not solve any legitimate problem out there. This is not an issue.”

Ghosting? There’s no ghosting by employers going on in this fair state!

Assemblyman Joe Danielsen, a sponsor of the bill, was having none of that. “These practices harm job seekers by wasting their valuable time and effort on non-existent opportunities.”

Yes, it’s that simple. For job seekers, ghosting has made everyday Halloween and has turned employers, recruiters and the job-board industry into shameless tricksters. The N.J. Assembly should see what our community has to say: Ghosting: Hard lessons about recruiters & employers.

Penalties

Employers with 10 or more employees would be affected. Violators would be issued a warning and scofflaws would be fined no less than $1,000 but no more than $5,000 for each ghosting incident. (How many expired or fake job postings can you count?) If the violation continues past a month, it will be considered a new violation exacting another fine. For example, if an employer or job board fails to remove an offending posting, the fine is assessed anew.

Of particular interest is references in the bill to “third-party job-posting entities,” which presumably includes headhunters, recruiters and job boards. It will be interesting to watch the progress of this bill — but people in New Jersey and across the nation need to be aware of it.

To the N.J. legislator who voted against the bill because “This bill does not solve any legitimate problem out there,” I say BUNK! This is a problem of epic proportions that affects every job seeker in the nation. Mouthpieces for business groups that cry it’s not right to “attack” employers should try to find a new job — if they can find a legitimate job posting! And political ideologues who argue “there’s too much government regulation” — well, you probably haven’t had to look for a job in a very long time!

What you can do

To answer your two questions, ghost jobs and ghosting of job seekers is prevalent enough of a problem that legislators — at least in N.J. — felt it was time to start regulating the public recruiting process.

What you can do is send a copy of N.J.’s bill A4625 to legislators in your state — and in the U.S. Congress and the Senate — and urge them to enact laws to stop employers from posting ghost jobs and from ghosting job seekers after recruiting them.

Do we need regulation of job advertisements and the job interview protocol? How would you make N.J.’s bill more effective? Do you think it would pass into law in your state? What else can we do to fix this epidemic of job fakery and associated trouble it causes job applicants?

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How do I find a job when I’m busy at work?

How do I find a job when I’m busy at work?

Question

I have 15 years’ experience in my field. My company is stagnating and there’s no upward path for me. I’ve been talking to other companies, but it always seems as though I am either over-qualified or under-qualified. I’ve worked with headhunters and have networked through friends and business associates, but it’s very difficult to search for a new job when I’m very busy at work. Is there anything else I can do?

Nick’s Reply

find a jobI appreciate your situation: full-time job and no time to job hunt. However, if you do it the right way, it shouldn’t interfere much with your current job.

Most people turn it into a time-consuming numbers game because they waste their time with the traditional approach: reading the job boards, writing cover letters, filling out endless online forms, sending resumes to people they don’t know (and who don’t know them), and going on the wrong interviews. (“Look! I’ve applied for over 400 jobs!”) This can tie up a lot of time with little reward.

Don’t waste your time; invest it

The headhunter’s approach (I’m referring to good headhunters, not those who are “dialing for dollars”) is quite different, more powerful, and it works. You don’t send out lots of resumes, go on just any of interviews, or spend your time on the job boards.

Instead, you invest your time talking with people who do the work you want to do. That helps you focus on just those jobs that are right for you (rather than jobs for which you are over- or under-qualified), and it lets you leverage your contacts. Moreover, it can take less time because you choose companies to pursue rather than try to chase any “opportunity” that comes along.

Choose, don’t chase

Here’s roughly how it works.

  • Pursue a small handful of companies — ideally, one at a time. It’s more manageable and more fruitful.
  • Base your chosen targets on the actual research you do on a company, not on whether it’s running a job posting.
  • Approach only companies that are absolutely right for you, based on your research. Don’t be lured by “what’s available.”
  • Don’t use resumes to introduce yourself — develop personal contacts instead.
  • Talk only to the hiring manager, not to HR.
  • Be prepared to talk about the manager’s business, not about a job. This will distinguish you from the competition.

Good contacts are all around you

Now for the key: How do you find the right people to talk to? (Hint: you won’t find them in the job postings!)

Use your professional contacts — people you talk with every day. You need not tell anyone you’re looking for a job in order to explore opportunities in your industry. Be discreet, but start talking!

Good contacts are all around you. Your vendors, customers, members of professional associations you belong to — all are people you can talk to with little risk. Don’t ask for job leads. Instead, ask for insights about their companies, the industry, advice about how you can learn more, and how you can meet others who do the work you want to do. Let them bring up the issue of new jobs.

When it’s done right, job search isn’t drudgery and doesn’t take a lot of time during your work day. It requires careful research and talking to a small handful of the right people — people who are affiliated with (or do business with) the company you want to work for.

That’s how you get introduced to your next boss.

When you’re looking for a new job, how do you avoid having your time wasted? What are the most productive steps you follow?

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